A Love For Words

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I have a deep and abiding love for words.

Many years ago I read somewhere that words are like legal contracts. Each word you utter is a promise to portray exactly what you mean with no intentional ambiguity.

Each word has a specific meaning in a given context. It is possible to say exactly what you mean in most situations, except when your emotions are too deep to be contained in the words designated to hold them.

When I use words to define what I am feeling, my impressions crystallize within me. The nebulous takes shape; the vague becomes solid; the fluid becomes concrete. Once the feeling is given garb, I may examine it and test it for validity and authenticity.

She had always wanted words, she loved them; grew up on them. Words gave her clarity, brought reason, shape. ~ Michael Ondaatje Click To Tweet

I know myself better when I give words to the movement of worlds within me. I find the process fascinating. At times when words fall short and my inner world flows prodigiously over, inundating and drenching everything in its path, I learn the limitlessness of my own thoughts. More than the structure, it is this boundlessness that I find captivating.

My love for words and language make them my companions. It is natural to want to play with them when fancy takes me. Not only does my love for words help me interpret myself, it also allows me to create stunning palaces and castles on the empty spaces of my mind. That is another reason why I love to write. I love to show those luxurious mansions to others and take delight in the sharing. 

You should write because you love the shape of stories and sentences and the creation of different words on a page. Writing comes from reading, and reading is the finest teacher of how to write.

~ Annie Proulx

A writer needs to know the meanings of words as a carpenter knows the proper use of his hammer. They are the tools of her craft, she must know exactly how to use them. The meanings are not learned by reading or memorizing the dictionary. They are learned by reading.

The context in which a word is used explains the meaning to you better than a dictionary definition would. The more often you read the word being used- by different authors, for different contexts- the better you will understand it. Also, reading it often will  make it a part of your own working vocabulary too!

The English language is said to have million of words. Obviously many words have been lost after they fell into disuse. People have an average working vocabulary of three to ten thousand words. Those who read have nearly five times that. Those who read a lot, have ten times the average vocabulary.

More than just knowing the words, avid readers understand words much better in all their nuances. This enables them to use words more confidently than they would otherwise be able to. If you propose to make you living by your pen- or to win your share of accolades- it makes sense to understand the tools of your trade as well as you can.

Words have power. Words can light fires in the minds of men. Words can wring tears from the hardest hearts.

~ Patrick Rothfuss

Knowing your tools well is a sure way to earn the respect of your peers and the admiration of those who use your services. In case of a writer, your users are your readers. Just as a carpenter learns to use his tools most effectively so his own efficiency is multiplied, so must a wordsmith acquire expertise around words. You would be horrified if you saw a carpenter use his bare hand to hammer in a nail, or to use a chisel to do it when a hammer was his for the asking.

It doesn’t matter which language you use to express yourself. It could be your mother tongue- or it could be a second/ third language like English. The principle is the same. The advisability of gaining mastery over your tools is as relevant.

Refining your language use is a gradual process. Naturally it is not recommended that you become an expert and only then begin your writing journey. That would be counterproductive. In the first place, there is not fixed benchmark which pronounces you an expert the moment you step beyond that line. In the second, it might take forever. You can’t keep sitting and twiddling your thumbs meanwhile! You must start with what you have and remain focused on sharpening yourself simultaneously.

Knowing your words well is not the same as acquiring a complicated vocabulary, studded with words which are difficult to spell, pronounce and decipher. There are a whole bunch of simple words which many of us use in the wrong context. For example:

  1. Consent: It doesn’t mean to give one’s enthusiastic permission. It means to passively or reluctantly agree, even when you would prefer not to.
  2. Compelled: It doesn’t mean to voluntarily do something, usually out of a moral or internal impulse. It means to be forced, obligated or pressured into doing something.
  3. Disinterested: It doesn’t mean Uninterested, as in bored. It means Being impartial towards,  or  not involved in, some event.

These are not complicated words. These are everyday words which have just been used incorrectly. It is possible that even with incorrect usage you might be able to put your point across because your reader has picked up other cues from your writing. But what if your reader is confused because your words say one thing while your context says another? Do you really want to take the risk?

How important is it for you to have a command over your language?

Love For Words

2 thoughts on “A Love For Words

  1. Zephyr

    Very good points to be followed by an aspiring or even a perspiring writer! You are right about learning even as you write. I have seen many people improve over the years, not dramatically, but at least grammatically and in their presentation. With innumerable writing tools available today, it has become easier, but often they are taken as substitutes to good writing which results in gobbledygook. I am sure you must have come across millions of cases of this too.

    Mastery or at least a reasonable grasp of a language before using it – is important to me. When I had been a kid, we had an Anglo-Indian colleague of my father as neighbours. They were the original Irish branch of the family and knew only English. At 4 or 5, I remember not talking at all while playing, but observing and learning the language. And then one day I began speaking perfect English and everyone was astounded. When I was asked why I had not spoken till then when I could speak so well, I told them that I had been learning! I have forgotten many incidents from my early years, but this one remains fresh in my memory. What would you call it? A child’s ego that couldn’t have taken criticism or correction? Or the need to sound correct when she ultimately decided to speak?
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    1. Dagny Post author

      Your use of the word gobbedgook had me rolling. Only you could have said it all with that one word!

      Too many people nowadays get very offended if an attempt is made to tell them what the correct usage is. You don’t know, I can understand. But you refuse to know even when someone is telling you… that I cannot understand. No one is trying to show you down! Why the aggression?

      Do you know, even Vani did exactly the same. She saw me talking to Saumya in English and she felt excluded. She began to observe us and out of the blue, one fine day, she began speaking fluent English! I was so surprised! Of course she makes some errors, even now, but this was truly amazing. So I can imagine how surprised people must have been when you began to speak perfect English suddenly. 😀


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